Monday, December 21, 2009

December 2009

There are so many things going on that it's hard to put it all down in words. It's been a while since I've updated you on my school stuff so I'll start there. I'll then fill you in on the rest of the family.

This past term at CNM was the heaviest term I've had yet. I had four classes which were all in the class room. (The details can be found in a previous blog posting.) Well those classes all ran through the 10th with finals for two of the classes the following week. So as of last Thursday, I am done with Fall 2009. Grades have been posted and I managed to get a 4.0 GPA which puts my cumulative GPA at 3.96. I'm relieved.

Registering for Spring 2010 at CNM was a bit of a hassle. My father and step-mother have been wonderful about watching the kids while I've been at school, but their schedules only allow for certain class times. The classes I need to take in order to get into Anderson School of Management (ASM) refused to line up with that schedule. What does this mean? Of the four classes I'm taking, three of them are online classes (Microeconomics, Logic and Critical Thinking, and Intro to Socialogy), and the one class I'm taking face to face (Intro to Anthropology) is during a time that I will need to find alternative child care once a month or miss that class period entirely. I am registered, however, and anxious to get started on January 12th. Well... mostly I'm just anxious to get it over with since all of these classes are for requirements and not for personal interest. On a side note, I've recently found out that one of the classes (Logic and Critical Thinking) is not required as I have already fulfilled the requirement with a transferred credit, so I have the option to drop it or change it to something else if I so choose. I haven't yet decided what I want to do.

In addition, I've been working on getting myself admitted to UNM so that I can work on a bachelor's degree. One of the requirements for admission to ASM at UNM is a computer science class that focuses on learning the Microsoft Office software in relation to business. While I've taken this class before it was almost 10 years ago and no longer counts towards admission. I'm left with the choice of taking it again or taking a waiver exam. The difficulty lies in the fact that if I fail the waiver exam I must take the class. Since I want to try to start Anderson in the Fall that means I have to take the exam with enough time to take the class if needed. This one test is the reason why I've been working on getting myself admitted to UNM for Spring 2010. Finally after admission paperwork, changing admission semester, meeting with advisors, an orientation meeting, meeting with yet another advisor, and pulling my hair out over what other classes do and do not apply (see above paragraph), I'm registered to take the waiver exam on January 12th. Wait.... but that's the day I start Spring term for CNM!!! And, wouldn't you know it, it just happens to end at the exact time my only face-to-face class begins.... sigh.

So three weeks between terms and I'll be using it to study for the waiver exam. Thank heavens Dan has time off between Christmas and New Years. Which brings me to the next subject. Christmas is this Friday. It's been fun having a big kid for a husband who loves the excitement of gift giving, but it's been even more fun having two smaller kids who are starting to understand a little more about Christmas (or at least understand the anticipation). I'll have to post pictures on Saturday. (Someone email me to remind me.) Schooling has made it a little hard to get some of the things done that I would have liked to get ready (baking, putting up lights and decorations, etc), but we have a tree up and decorated and we cut some snowflakes to tape in the window so I'm happy. And almost every day we watch one or another of the Christmas movies we own. Last night we had a Christmas themed dinner at my parent's house. It was a lot of fun having so much family, that I don't get to see on a regular basis, together. I think this year will be great :)

"But I want pictures now!!"

Before After Fine, but they're not the pictures you're expecting. We  recently spotted a hole in our bathroom wall. Water damage was the last thing we could afford, but it coincided with a bathroom project we've been talking about so we decided to look into it. Dan's physical problems make it hard for him to lift his feet very far off the ground. This makes getting into the tub/shower hard each morning. We had discussed getting rid of the tub (the kids have one in their bathroom so we don't need one in ours) and turning it into just a shower. After having a couple of companies in to bid on the project we decided to go with ReBath of New Mexico because they wouldn't have to jackhammer the drain to move it and could get the project done in only 2 days instead of 2 weeks. The results are amazing. Click here to see the rest of the pictures.

I'm not even sure what else to tell you. Dan's work let go of more people which makes us a little nervous, but he still has a job and now has the ability to do work from home if his back makes it necessary. It's so fun to hear some of the things the kids say. They're imaginations are crazy. Just the other day Valerie exclaimed to Gabriel, "I freeze you with hot dogs!" We're still not sure what this means or where it came from, but it's led to some fun conversations in the car as we freeze each other with various food items.

Enough rambling for now. If I think of anything else to add I'll put it in a new post.

Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Fall Term Update

It's been a while since I've written so I thought I'd fill you all in on what's been going on.

Valerie is showing a very artistic side lately. Just about anything liquid becomes something she can spill, paint, or play with. She loves to sing as well. She'll frequently make up her own songs as we drive along in the car. She also loves animals and babies her stuffed animals while ignoring her baby dolls. Up until recently we've managed to avoid the princess stage, but when she received a Barbie nightdress as a hand-me-down from a neighbor it quickly became her favorite pajamas and the Barbie and Disney Princess revolution began. She still likes green and blue better than pink, but who knows how long that will last :)

Gabriel is learning fast. While I'm at class he'll work on a Preschool workbook with my dad (or sister depending on who's in town). He's fascinated with cars too. It started with the Disney/Pixar movie, but Dan recently found him a Hot Wheels movie and mini-series that he loves as well. He's also into the new Speed Racer cartoon (Valerie likes this one too). He loves to pull out his toy cars, pretend they are characters from the movies, crash them together, and "boom them up." His most recent "boom" came this past Sunday when he jumped onto the couch (as usual), smacked his head into the corner of the end table (not as usual), and put a hole into it (definitely not usual). So Sunday morning was spent in the emergency room. Finally, he's not as fond of vegetables as Valerie is, but he loves apples. My father recently brought some apples back from Dixon and Gabe's been loving it. Even more now that Dan has tried out caramel apples (which wasn't very successful).

Dan has decided to try out a side business. It started as an idea to make custom ball-tops for video game joy-sticks using resin. He's been thinking of ways to expand the resin business into other areas such as beads, models, and other things. He's purchased most of the supplies, but time and health have made it slow going. Hopefully he'll get a chance this weekend to try and get things going. As for work, things have been getting more stressful. He's been given the opportunity to do "billable" work which would bring in extra on his paycheck, but the companies have been so wishy-washy about it, that it's more stress than it may be worth. The added work from recent cutbacks has made things more stressful as well. He's been considering a career / employment change, but that's on hold with the economy as bad as it is.

Three weeks ago I started my third term at CNM. Since I'm working on my UNM pre-requisites, this term is less about accounting and more about general education classes. My schedule is Tues and Thurs from 9am - 1:15pm and Tues from 6:00pm - 8:50pm. The 9am class is the second half of my Accounting 1 class and I'm still up in the air about whether I like it or not. The teacher has been teaching for a while, but in some ways it seems like he's trying out new things on us and isn't sure of how it should all work. My 10:30am class is my Technical Writing english class which focuses on writing in the workplace. I'm beginning to wish I'd taken this class online as the teacher spends most of the class going over the book practically point by point which I could have easily accomplished on my own. In her defense, it is a new book so she's still feeling her way along, but it doesn't stop me from almost falling asleep a few times. At 12pm, I have my Macroeconomics class which I'm really enjoying. I wasn't originally registered in this class, but after looking at Ratemyprofessors.com, I rearranged my classes to try and get into this one (and ended up losing my Sociology class in the process). The teacher makes the subject interesting and helps me understand things very well. When I take Microeconomics next term I intend to try and get the same teacher. My last class is the Tues night Chem Lab. I took Chemistry almost 15 years ago at BYU, but the credit transferred and allowed me to take the lab without having to retake the class. I'm hoping that I'm not shooting myself in the foot with it because it's been so long, but so far I'm doing okay.

Other than classes, I've been recently working on getting the kids (and myself) out and about more. Monday and Wednesday afternoons there's a flexible volleyball game going on at our church that's open to pretty much anyone. Usually there are also enough kids there to keep my kids entertained as well. Occationally the game pauses while tiffs are settled, but for the most part they keep each other occupied. I've actually managed to drop a pant size because of it too :)

Sorry about the length, but I wanted to get you all up to date.

Friday, August 21, 2009

Summer Term Fin

Summer term officially ended on the 9th of August. I sat on pins and needles fully expecting an "A" in one class and either an "A" or "B" in the other. Imagine my surprise when I got the "A" in the one I wasn't sure about and saw a "C" in the other class. In a slight state of panic I emailed my teacher (forgetting to include my full name and the class I was in) begging for an explanation. She gently chided me for the absence of helpful information and then proceeded to tell me that it was a typo and would be corrected within a week. So I managed to finish my online only term with a 4.0 GPA.

Fall term begins August 31st, but things are changing this coming year. So far I've been looking at taking 2-3 classes a term and working towards an associates degree in accounting from CNM. After consideration I've decided it would be better to work towards a bachelor's degree from UNM. What has changed my mind?
  1. Accreditation: A bachelor's degree is going to hold more weight in a business field that doesn't require any specific sort of certification (which is true of bookkeeping and basic accounting). In addition, a degree from a 4-year university will also hold more weight than one from a 2-year community college.
  2. Time: At the end of June we had the wonderful opportunity of spending several days in Angel Fire, NM with my father, siblings, and their kids. Upon returning to work on the first Monday in July, Dan found that his company had had another round of lay-offs despite their assurances that the lay-offs in February were to prevent any need for any more. These new lay-offs have added to the work load of surviving employees. This combined with the possibility of additional lay-offs has made work very stressful for Dan. With this in mind I've stepped up my education to try and get my business together sooner. With that in mind I'll be taking a full load each term until graduation. This term is 13 credit hours split between 5 classes both in the classroom and online.
  3. Money: While I have help with paying for school. I was looking for additional help through financial aid. Joy of joys I found that I not only qualified for financial aid, but it would cover more than just school costs which would help with financial stress here at home. Then the bombshell hit. Financial aid holds certain requirements beyond financial needs. I expected the GPA requirements. What I hadn't anticipated was that you also have to complete your degree within a certain time frame and since I'd attended courses several years ago all the credits I had (even though they weren't towards my degree) counted towards this "Maximum Time Frame." The financial aid and scholarships I was looking forward to helping me out went "POOF" on the 14th. If my research is correct, however, financial aid will once again be available to me once I enter Anderson School of Management at UNM because it's considered a graduate program even though I'm working towards a bachelor's degree. I haven't confirmed this, but I'm really hoping I'm right and I feel that it's the best course for me even if I'm wrong.

So what does this change? First of all, as I mentioned in #2, I'm going to be taking a full load starting this term. Second, since I'm working towards getting into Anderson, I need to fulfill certain requirements which means that the accounting classes will be taking a back seat to the general education classes I'm missing. I'm still taking Accounting 1B because it's the second half of a class I took in the spring, but the rest of my courses are Sociology, Economics, Chemistry, and English. My spring 2010 term will be similar, with the summer 2010 term dedicated to finishing off the accounting and business classes I'm able to transfer over. I have to be careful which classes I take because UNM will only transfer certain classes which is why I can't just take all the classes towards the associates degree and expect them to count.

So that's my school update in a rather large nutshell. I'll continue to post changes as things progress.

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Garden to Life (Lesson #6)

Just like the soil, you only have so many resources to offer the things in your life. When your life gets crowded you need to thin things out (even the good things) so that the other things can grow to their best potential and you don't deplete yourself. And don't forget to enjoy the fruits of the labors you've thinned.

Friday, August 7, 2009

Garden to Life

Things I've Learned About Life From My Dad's and My Own Garden



  1. With patience and work, it can produce great things.


  2. If you don't give it attention it can wither and and die.


  3. It's exciting to watch it grow and change.


  4. You have to get rid of the weeds no matter how pretty they are.

  5. Don't let it go to waste. Share whatever you don't use.


Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Mistborn Minis Contest

For those of you who love the Mistborn Trilogy by Brandon Sanderson, BCSReview has a contest going on to win minis by Garden Ninja Stuidos. Check it out here: BCSReview Contest

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Management Theories X, Y, & Z

So I'm taking an online business class and we're using a book entitled Undertanding Business from McGraw-Hill. Chapter 10, which we are studying right now, deals with Motivating Employees and they introduce two theories in regards to employees.

"The assumptions of Theory X management are as follows:
  • The average person dislikes work and will avoid it if possible.
  • Because of this dislike, workers must be forced, controlled, directed, or threatened with punishment to make them put forth the effort to achieve the organization's goals.
  • The average worker prefers to be directed, wishes to avoid responsibility, has relatively little ambition, and wants security.
  • Primary motivators are fear and money."

"Theory Y makes entirely different assumptions about people:

  • Most people like work; it is as natural as play or rest.
  • Most people naturally work toward goals to which they are committed.
  • The depth of a person's commitment to goals depends on the perceived rewards for achieving them.
  • Under certain conditions, most people not only accept but also see responsibility.
  • People are capable of using a relatively high degree of imagination, creativity, and cleverness to solve problems.
  • In industry, the average person's intellectual potential is only partially realized.
  • People are motivated by a variety of rewards. Each worker is stimulated by a reward unique to that worker (time off, money, recognition, etc.)"

The book goes on to state that in the United States Theory X is losing way to Theory Y. It then introduces a third theory.

"In addition... another reason for companies to adopt a more flexible managerial style is to meet competition from foreign firms such as those in Japan, China, and the European Union. Back in the 1980s, Japanese companies seemed to be outperforming Amerian businesses. William Ouchi, a management professor at the University of California-Los Angeles, wondere if the secret to Japanese success was the way Japanese companies managed their workers. The Japanese management approach (what Ouchi called Type J) involved lifetime employment, consensual decision making, collective responsibility for the outcomes of decisions, slow evaluation an promotion, implied control mechanisms, nonspecialized career paths, and holistic concern for employees. In contrast, the American management approach (what Ouchi called Type A) involved short-term employment, individual decision making, individual responsibility for the outcomes of decisions, rapid evaluation and promotion, explicit control mechanisms, specialized career paths, and segmented concern for employees.

"Type J firms are ased on the culture of Japan, which includes a focus on trust and intimacy within the group and family. Conversely, Type A firms are based on the culture of America, which include a focus on individual rights and achievements. Ouchi wanted to help American firms adopt the successful Japanese strategies, but he realized that it wouldn't be practical to expect American managers to accept an approach based on the culture of another country... Therefore, Ouchi recommended a hybrid of the two approaches in what he called Theory Z. Theory Z blends the characteristics of Type J and Type A into an approach that involves long-term employment, collective decision making, individual responsibility for the outcomes of decisions, slow evaluation and promotion, moderately specialized career paths, and holistic concern for employees (including family). The theory views the organization as a family that fosters cooperation and organizational values."

What I would like to know is which management theory you feel is more accurate and why. Then I would like to ask anyone living in Japan to comment on the last paragraph in this section of Chapter 10 and give their views on whether this trend is continuing today (the book was published in 2006), and what effect it's having.

"Today, economic decline, demographic and social changes, and fierce global competition have forced Japanese managers to reevaluate the way they conduct business. Whereas the Japanese system of the 1980s was admired for its focus on building long-term business relationships, today there is a realization that Japanese firms need to become both more dynamic and more efficient in order to compete effectively in the rapidly changing global economy. Feeling the pain of the worst recession in their country's history, some Japanese managers are changing the way they do business. For example, electronics giant Hitachi was the first major Japanese company to announce it had quit requiring corporate calisthenics - exercises done in groups not only for health but also to foster cohesion among employees. Having everyone start the day with group exercises symbolized doing the same thing the same way and reinforced the cultural belief that empoyees should not take risks or think for themselves. Many managers think that such conformity is what has hurt Japanese business."

Monday, June 8, 2009

Fun in the summer

We took pictures and I don't have them available to post yet, but we went as a family to the Albuquerque Zoo on Saturday. We'd been trying to go since Memorial Day. Our plans were foiled since on Memorial Day we got together as a family and bottled strawberry freezer jam. This was a lot of fun in my opinion, but it took longer than expected and we decided to postpone the zoo until that Saturday.

That Wednesday I exhibited a runny nose that eventually became a sore throat. Thursday morning Valerie and I were zombies from being up with her inability to breath. Saturday morning at 1 am I was awakened by Gabriel crying. He'd thrown up. Dan woke up later that morning with a sore throat. Ironically by that time my sore throat was gone, but had been replaced by a nasty sinus headache that included an ear ache and aching in my jaw. Needless to say, we didn't go to the Zoo. We didn't go to church that Sunday either.

We were feeling better by the next Wednesday, June 3, when we headed to the park for my book club meeting. We had fun letting the kids run around while we discussed The Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins. I got home and put the kids down for a rest (they were quite tired) and found a message from a friend inviting us to go swimming. I called her back and we accepted the invitation to meet them after rest time. The kids were wiped out by bed time that night :).

So we made it to the zoo on Saturday. With the exception of a scary moment when Dan almost went over backwards in his wheelchair on a ramp, we all seemed to have a lot of fun. As I said, we have pictures and even video, but they're all on the other camera and I still haven't figured out the transferring of pictures off of that one. Dan's promised me a DVD-ROM of everything when he gets a chance so I'll get back to you on those.

How does your garden grow?

First I wanted to share our yard with you. We recently got rid of the gravel from our backyard and put sod in. We started by rototilling the ground.


Then we added peat moss and compost and rototilled that in as well.


(nice pile of rocks we pulled out of there huh?)

Then we laid the sod, planted tomatoes by the rose bush (in the back corner), and planted bell peppers, bush style green beans, cucumbers, pumpkins, and carrots by the patio.


We have since added cherry tomatoes that we got from a friend at work. Due to the amount of sand rather than soil we have, we were quite pleased when things started to grow. The tomatoes and bell peppers that we planted were especially worrisome since it looked like they were more likely to die. So having the blossoms appear on the tomato plants was really exciting!



Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Quick Grade Update

Well one term down, roughly 8 more to go (give or take). I took two classes this term towards a BS in Accounting and received an A in both classes. Next term starts on the 18th for my online only classes. My half term class (6 weeks long instead of 12, but the class time is longer) starts the last week in June. They all end the first week in August. I'll keep you up to date as things progress.

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

The Price of Hobbies

All hobbies cost us. The question you have to ask is what do they cost us, and is it worth it? As I write this I'm working on Family History. I currently have a paid Ancestry.com account and it's been very useful in connecting the dots (since many of the records are not free), but my account is about to expire and I cannot justify the ~$160 per year cost with our current budget. The other factor is time. I could look up these items myself without the use of the computer, but the time involved would be greater than I could possibly have. There is a reason the stereotypical geneologist is grey-haired, not middle-aged with two young children. Sigh!

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Half Done

Of the two classes I'm taking this term, one of them is finished. This is my Business Math class that only meets one day a week (instead of the standard two). A couple of weeks ago our teacher decided that there were so many people who were either doing well or weren't that she would save herself (and us) some time by making the final exam optional. So today (the last day of class before the final exam) she handed out grade sheets and told everyone that if they were happy with their grade as it stood they didn't have to take the final (and didn't even need to stay for class since it was just final review). So I signed in that I was there and left.

Final grade: A

My other class (Accounting 1A) has its last chapter exam on Thursday with a final review next Tuesday and the final the Thursday following. In other words, I only have a week and a half left in that class as well. I'll post the grade for that one when I know it.

On another note: I've registered for Summer Term already and these classes are probably going to be harder. If not in content, then in execution. Two of my classes are purely distance learning (all online) while the third was only available to me (as far as I could fit into my schedule) as a 6 week accelerated course (the class itself is 3 hours long). As always, I'll keep you posted :)

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Easter Photos

I'm working on how to have to only upload them all once and be able to post them wherever I want, but for now you can see them in my Facebook album.

Friday, April 10, 2009

5 Minute Chocolate Cake

(Pictures to come later)

4 Tbsp flour
4 Tbsp sugar
2 Tbsp cocoa
1 Egg
3 Tbsp milk
3 Tbsp oil
3 Tbsp chocolate chips (optional)
Small splash vanilla
Large microwave safe mug

1. Put dry ingredients in the mug and mix thoroughly.
2. Add the egg and mix well.
3. Add the oil and milk and mix.
4. Add chocolate chips (if you're using them) and the vanilla and mix.
5. Put the mug in the microwave and cook for 3 minutes at 1000 watts. The cake may rise over the top of the mug (depending on its size), but don't be alarmed.
6. Allow the cake to cool a little. You can then tip the cake onto a plate or eat directly from the mug as desired.

Thursday, April 9, 2009

Birthday Bash to Birthday Bomb - The Rest of the Story

"Karen please forward this to your Gmyr Weekly group from me - Karma.

"Wednesday when I had discovered the huge charge in my bank account, I contacted everyone who was there that night to let them know they needed to check their accounts cause I had been overcharged. I contacted Zio's and spoke to the same manager, Brian, who had been there Monday night. He is the same one that has the personality of a snail (if that is possible). He said that I should take my receipt to the restaurant and he would get a credit issued. I took off work, and 45 minutes later I pulled into the empty parking lot. After a brief conversation with Brian, another woman came out to tell me that corporate needed to investigate this and "IF" I was due a refund, they would issue it 5 - 7 days. I guess I lost it. Told the entire restaurant how unhappy our party was, how our experience was the worse experience possible. I left there with the intention of going to my bank and having the charge disputed.

"Now mind you the charge was $225.64. My bill was $52.04. I found out from talking to all the parties that the entire table was $225.64. I didn't feel that I should wait for corporate to determine "IF" I was going to get a refund, so I thought maybe I should just dispute the charge and sort it out later. On the way to the bank, dad called to say maybe I should wait a couple days.

"During my conversation with Dan's mom earlier, she mentioned that Zio's had a website and you could post a complaint. So instead of going to the bank, I posted a very lengthly complaint on the website telling corporate how disgusted I was with my first and last visit to their establishment. I explained that we had been in the restaurant 2-1/2 hours, I had to retrieve our bread because our waitstaff disappeared on us, that our drinks were not refilled, and that the manager had given us a lame excuse when we complained to him. One thing you didn't mention below, about 1-1/2 hours into our wait, dad had called the manager out wondering where our food was and noting that several tables around us had come and gone. His excuse was that they were short handed and the food would be out shortly. Then went back to his office. My final comment on the website was that salt was poured into my wound when I was charged the entire amount for the table and no one was willing to get me a refund even though I had proof of what my charge should have been.

"Exactly 40 minutes after I sent the comment, I received a phone call from corporate. A very nice gentleman by the name of Kevin. He was extremely apologetic. He said he would investigate the charge and would get back to me immediately. He called me an hour later. He never really bluntly stated it, but I got the impression that Brian got an ear full from him. Kevin stated that it was not their policy to charge the gratuity if there had been complaints about the service and that the gratuity should have been removed from the tickets. He stated that it was not their policy to disregard their patrons. He also stated that I should have been given a full refund when I drove all the way to Rio Rancho to get this handled because corporate does not handle the refunds. And the reason I was charged the entire amount, the other cards had been swiped but when the charges were processed that evening, my card being the first card and a debit card "accepted" the entire amount amd the other cards were discarded.

"To make a long story short, he refunded me $200 (I am still waiting for that to hit my account), and he is sending me a gift certificate as an apology from the restaurant service. I found out later that Kevin had also called Dan's mom and had fully refunded her their charge. So because we complained, our meal cost $25.64, and Dan's mom's meal was free. And both of us will be getting a gift certificate.

"I don't know if Dan's sister or dad got charged, because as of yet I had not heard. But I have raised my impression of the restaurant back up to a 7. The food we got was very tasty, the service was very bad. And after my conversation with Kevin, those individuals may be on the unemployment line. So to those who still have a sour taste from our experience. you may want to complain????"

Birthday Bash to Birthday Bomb

To start out with I want to cover a little back story. About a month ago we got a really great deal on restaurant gift certificates through Restaurant.com. We had never used them before so we printed out one and glanced over the Terms and Conditions at the bottom. We misread the section about how long you have to use them and panicked when we thought we'd have to use all of them within 90 days (it's actually one year). Much mental planning ensued, and we decided that for my daughter's birthday we would have a family get together at Tony Roma's (one of the places we have gift certificates for). Phone calls were made, emails were sent, and at final count we were looking at a total party of 20 people (adults and children). I called Tony Roma's on the Saturday before her birthday (Monday the 6th) to see if I needed to make reservations. I was told that they no longer took reservations, but based on the time we were planning on being there (5:30) our large party shouldn't be a problem. They recommended that I arrive 5-10 minutes early to give them enough time to set up. Great!

Monday at 5:15pm we pulled into a nearly empty parking lot. This was the first indication that all was not well. We piled out of the car and walked up to the door where we found a sign saying that Tony Roma's had closed that day and would be reopening in three days time as a completely different restaurant. Dan and I looked at each other and decided that we'd make due by heading to another nearby restaurant, but which one we wanted to wait for input from others before deciding. While Dan got the kids back into the car I happened to see a young lady wearing a Tony Roma shirt get out of one car and head towards another. I walked towards her to find out what had happened. She told me that the management had made this decision and no one at the restaurant had known anything until Saturday at closing (which is why no one told me when I'd called that day). With the Tony Roma's in town closed now we would have to find a way to exchange our gift certificates somehow (but that is a future blog entry).

So now we are trying to figure out where to eat. More phone calls are made in which it is determined that 5:30 was a bad time for everyone to try and make it across the river (rush hour traffic is terrible for west-side commuting) and that no one was going to be there at 5:30 anyway. We did ask people for opinions and the only restaurant mentioned was an Italian place just down the parking lot called Zio's. The two who mentioned it said they had good food for about the same price we would have paid at Tony Roma's. More calls were made in which we solidified Zio's as our choice and it was revealed that one group would not be able to come dropping our number to 17.

With that we headed over to Zio's and walked in the door around 5:30 or so. The hostess asked how many and I told her 17. She looked a bit worried, but said that they would put some tables together and be ready for us in about 30 minutes. I told her that it would be fine since we weren't all there yet (in fact we were seated before the last of us arrived). In hindsight, I'm not sure it was wise to mention that we had originally attempted to go to Tony Roma's, but I was hoping they would feel complimented that this was our first choice when that fell through. Who knows.

I'm not entirely sure the process involved in waiting on tables, but I'm guessing it involves getting drink orders, filling drink orders, getting food orders, turning in food orders to the kitchen, picking up food orders when ready, delivering food orders to the table, periodically checking in to make sure there is nothing else needed (such as drink refills, dessert items, etc.), preparing and delivering the check, and then, depending on the restaurant, acting as cashier upon payment of the check. As we sat down the waitress (very friendly individual) made the rounds asking for drink orders and having been informed that there would be different checks determining who would be part of which check. The groups consisted of: Dan, myself and the kids being paid for by my father (my step-mother was out of town) who would also be paying for my sister, Sandy, and her friend; My sister, Karma, with her husband and daughter; Dan's mother and step-father; and Dan's sister, Sarah, with her husband and three (and a quarter :P) children.

A quick note about my father: We had originally intended to pay for ourselves. My father, however, was at the other end of the table and approached first. He promptly indicated that he would be paying for the "birthday girl" and her family at the other end. From past experience, Dan and I have learned to not contradict him when he does this. The waitress conveyed the message of whom would be paying as she took our order and was corrected regarding the information about the "birthday girl" whom she thought was me.

Our drinks arrived and our food orders were taken and we thought it might be nice to go ahead with the presents while we waited for salads and appetizer. I admit that the presents didn't take very long, but it was still quite a wait before we got our salads. There was no sign of the appetizer. My salad was the last one to be brought out. I had ordered the Italian dressing, but had asked for no pepperoncini. The waiter who brought my salad stated "Italian dressing, no pepperoncini" and handed the plate to me. I set it down and found the pepperoncini staring back at me from right next to the Italian dressing. No worries, I thought, sometimes things are missed.

We finished our salads and only then did the appetizer appear. That was consumed and we waited. And waited. And just when the kids were ready to stage a revolt, our food appeared and waiters and waitresses started distributing everything. When all was said and done we found that we were one dish short. My husband and sister had ordered the same item, but only one had come out of the kitchen. It took us a few minutes to finally flag down the waitress, but we got the oversight corrected and within a few minutes Dan had his dinner as well. I had ordered the Chicken Parmigiana. There were two breaded chicken breasts on a large pile of spaghetti noodles. The chicken had melted cheese and sauce and wasn't bad. The noodles, however, were only somewhat warm and fairly dry without much sauce at all. (Opening and eating the leftovers the next day I noticed the chicken was also burnt along the edges.) My sister's and sister-in-law's husbands both ordered the Pepperoni Chicken and were dismayed to find that it consisted of very little chicken at all. They did have a lot of noodles, however, which put the quantity in par with the price even if the quality fell short. The food was also very filling and rather than Dan and I each ordering desserts as we had originally planned we asked the waitress if they had a small dish of ice cream that our daughter could have as a birthday treat. She informed us that they actually had a small birthday sundae that they could bring out, complete with a candle. We agreed upon this.

A note about birthdays at restaurants: If you've ever had a birthday at a restaurant you may be familiar with different practices. Some restaurants will have a small birthday dessert which they will bring out to you singing. Others don't have a separate dessert (whither from costs or convenience), but are willing to gather the wait staff to make you highly embarrassed while singing to you. It may be because my father and daughter met the waitress with the birthday sundae during their wanderings, but I've never encountered a place where they don't at the very least sing or chant as a celebration. This was one of them.

As the evening wound down, Sandy had to leave a little early, and came over to say her good-byes. I thanked her for coming and asked if she had enjoyed herself. She replied that she hadn't. A little surprised (she had been one of the people who had been there before) and a little sad, I didn't reply, but told her bye and thanked her again. A little later my daughter rebelled at the idea of staying in her chair a moment longer and went wandering around with Grandpa. It was during these wanderings that the birthday sundae appeared and we sang "Happy Birthday" to her (she had already blown out the candle twice before it had reached the table so we skipped that part). She and my son dug in as the checks were distributed to the various groups. At first glance it appeared that they had gotten the checks wrong. It turned out that they had gotten the groupings right, but that two checks very close in total had been switched. Everything was paid for. Restrooms were used and we all headed home. Now, I cannot tell you the exact time, but I know it was after 8 when we finally left because it was well past bed time for the kids. That put us in the restaurant a little over 2 hours. At the time I walked out of the restaurant I would have rated the evening a 5 out of 10. The waiting seemed a bit long and the food wasn't great, but it was filling and the wait staff was friendly.

And now, as Paul Harvey used to say, "the rest of the story."

My sister, Sandy (who had left a little early), called me when we got home. She wanted to tell me that she had been extremely disappointed since this experience had been nothing like her previous experiences there. I allowed for the fact that we had a large group and that the wait was likely caused by the kitchen trying to get everything out at the same time. She countered by relating that she had spoken with the manager on the way out the door. The manager stated that a large party should not have had such a long wait, but offered nothing besides apologies for the inconvenience.

Every Tuesday and Thursday morning, I take my kids to my father's house where he watches them while I am in class. When I arrived the next day (Tuesday) he took me aside to show me the confusion on his check. They listed each item then showed a pre-calculated 18% gratuity (standard practice for a large party) and then a subtotal. Then they showed sales tax and a second charge (not labelled as a gratuity) for the same amount as the gratuity followed by the total. Based on how things were laid out, it appeared that they had charged the gratuity twice until you realize that the subtotal didn't include the first gratuity amount. He also pointed out a charge we had missed for the birthday sundae. Past experience shows that (most) restaurants won't charge you if they have a special birthday dessert, since it usually consists of something small and it's generally considered a "gift" to the celebrant. This wasn't the case here. He also had spoken at length with the manager, but again received nothing for the inconvenience besides apologies, which he did not seem impressed with.

The nail in the coffin came Wednesday morning when my cell phone rings while I'm trying to get the kids out the door for a doctor appointment. My sister, Karma, is calling me to get contact information for my mother-in-law. Karma didn't tell me the entire story, but this is what I'm guessing happened. Karma and Sarah's checks were similar in total and had been switched. I'm guessing that Karma had checked her online statement Wednesday morning to see which total she had been charged. She found that the total was quite a bit higher than it should have been and called my father to see what he had been charged. He hadn't been charged anything. She told me she was planning on calling my mother-in-law and my sister-in-law to see if they had any charges on their accounts and to get a total as she thinks she was charged for the entire meal (based on the total charge). She then went on to say that regardless of if they had been charged, she was intending to see that she was reimbursed for the incorrect charges based on the check she had been given. She'll have to comment here to confirm or deny my theories as well as let us know the outcome.

The bottom line? The rating I'm giving the evening has dropped to a 2... if that. And I highly recommend that you avoid this place in the future. What place? Zio's Italian restaurant located in the Cottonwood Mall parking lot in Albuquerque, NM. I now intend to post this on every review site I can find.

Zio's Italian Kitchen on Urbanspoon

Friday, March 27, 2009

Freecycling

We bought this house 1 year ago next Tuesday (man time flies) and shortly after moving in we took the small gravel in our backyard and piled it up in preparation to re-landscape. We got a professional to come in and give us an estimate, but we were simply in too much debt with no extra cash. Part of the professional treatment involved removal of the gravel. Over the months we've toyed with the idea of Dad taking the gravel for personal use, Dad helping us haul it to the dump, putting a bucket full in our trashcan each week, and offering it on craigslist. Annoyed with it I mentioned on Facebook that we wanted to get rid of it and a friend recommended a site called Freecycle. I looked into it, joined our local Albuquerque group and listed it.

Freecycle is a way for people to offer items they no longer want/need to people in their local area for no cost. You can either post that you have something to offer or you can post that you are looking for something. You can even post items that need work as some people are looking for projects. Well, within 6 hours of posting there was one reply. Within 24 hours of that we received another reply. After staring at that pile in the back for almost a year we finally have the means to get rid of it. If you have things you are planning on donating I would recommend this. I have nothing against donating it to GoodWill or Deseret Industries, but from the viewpoint of someone looking for a bargain, it's much nicer to get something from someone directly for free rather than having to pay for it at a second-hand store where you have no idea what it's been through.

Monday, March 23, 2009

Frugality, thy name is dinner

* Feed a family for five bucks? It's possible if you plan right

By Andrea Weigl
McClatchy Newspapers

Faye Prosser is so thrifty she teaches classes on how to be more frugal.

The Clayton, N.C., stay-at-home mom also has written a book, "The Smart Spending Guide: How to Cut Your Grocery Bills in Half, Save on Your Everyday Expenses and Live Within Your Means." Her weekly shopping budget is $55, which covers meals for a week and bargain hunting.
Prosser recently explained her approach to meal planning.

She starts with a master meal plan, a list of meals her family enjoys. It helps jog her memory and prevents her from serving the same thing over and over, she says. Her list is divided into dinner, lunch, breakfast, side dishes and desserts.

Once a week, she plans a week's worth of meals based on what's in her fridge, freezer, pantry and on sale at the stores.

She urges people to be flexible, just plan to serve these meals at some point during the week. Every Sunday night, Prosser files her coupons and takes about 20 minutes to write out the week's menu.

Her goal is to spend about $5 a meal. For example, she recently served salmon patties, rolls, Uncle Ben's Rice, zucchini, onions, and tomatoes for dinner. Four salmon patties were on sale for $3.99 and she had a coupon for $2 off a Wild Alaskan salmon product. The rolls and rice were free with coupons. The zucchini and tomatoes came from the garden. She spent 50 cents on an onion, 50 cents onmayonnaise and 50 cents for drinks. Total cost: $3.49.

'A special meal'

Even for her daughter's birthday dinner for six, Prosser spent only $6.89 to make teriyaki chicken and vegetable stir fry with rice and an ice cream cake. "And that's a special meal," she says.

She advises shoppers to always plan to eat leftovers for one meal or lunches.

Consider doubling or tripling recipes to freeze for later, she says. Muffins, pancakes and French toast freeze well.

Don't throw out brown bananas or turn down zucchini. Make banana or zucchini bread and freeze for later.

Make the best use of the freezer space. Take frozen foods out of their boxes and label the bags, she says.

She tells her students to stock up on dry goods and store them in the bottom of closets, under beds and in linen cabinets.

To stretch that dinner dollar, she buys less meat and serves more vegetables, grains and beans. Consider vegetarian meals. Make egg salad, tuna salad or grilled cheese for dinner.

"I encourage people to remember: not every meal has to be Sunday dinner," she says.

Buy fruits and vegetables when they are in season and cheaper. Shop at farmers markets and produce stands.

Remember the rule of two, she says. When consumers find a bargain, they should buy two, so they don't have to run out and pay full price.

Even for people who don't clip coupons, Prosser says, meal planning will save them money by keeping them from dining out.

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Article in the Wednesday, September 10, 2008, Albuquerque Journal. I wanted to keep a copy of it, but don't have anywhere to store it so I thought I'd kill two birds with one stone and share it with you while keeping an electronic copy for myself. Hope it helps.

Sunday, March 22, 2009

Midterm Grades - Redux

You're right Sarah. I shouldn't be ashamed that I'm doing well (because that's honestly how I feel). To give you a run down of how she grades, she takes out the lowest homework grade (even if it's 100). If there are any Extra Credit assignments they replace the next lowest respectively (unless the grade on the EC is lower than the grade on the homework). Then she averages and weights these according to her grading scale. The exams and quizzes are averaged and weighted as is (though she hints that could change... something about the final exam grade counting for itself and replacing the lowest exam grade). Since we haven't had a final yet (being mid-term grades) she exclues the finals grade (ex: the final grade is worth 20% so she takes the weighted grades and divides by 80 instead of 100) and that's the mid-term grade. This grade is subject to change. In my case it's more possible to go down than up, but I wouldn't omit the possibility of increasing it.

Now for the grades:
Accounting 1A (my on campus class): 100.66%
Business Math (my hybrid/dl class): 100.80%

Socializing

A short time ago I was planning on getting my Melaleuca business back up and running after a break. Unfortunately the group that I originally started with (MomsWIN) no longer existed so I had to change my work email address. I decided on SaferInHome, but never really did much with my business so the email address sat fairly dormant until a few weeks ago when I started getting emails from Twitter on that account.

Now, call me out of touch, but I didn't have a clue what Twitter was (still don't really). I thought it was just spam and deleted it.... until I realized that each email was some sort of update. I managed to hijack the account (it was my email address so I just had them reset the password and email me the new one) so that I could figure out what was going on. Near as I can tell this person had set up their account and accidentally put in my email address (still not sure how that worked). I didn't want to close the account, but I didn't have a clue on how to reset the password so that the creator could have their account back (since the password reset would go back to my email address) so I left an entry telling the person to email me and I'd give the account back. After a couple weeks of no response (I'm guessing the person who had the account either didn't know what email address she entered, or was no longer interested in it) I closed the account knowing from my research that no one could use that email address on a Twitter account once it was closed. And in my opinion, good riddance.

Having said that, I think it's quite interesting that I've always said that I would never have a blog, yet here it is. I also strongly opposed having a MySpace or Facebook account. Okay, so I haven't caved on the MySpace thing, but yesterday when Dan was so excited to get in touch with some old Pennsylvania high school friends enough to set up his own Facebook account I caved in myself since I'd received several invites and actually knew people on there. I'm not sure the purpose of this Facebook thing. It allows for chats and mini-blogging (also known as updating status as far as I can tell) and little applications (called games and quizzes). I've manage to add this blog as well as my Goodreads account (though I'm not sure how part works) and my Photobucket account. I've connected with some friends I haven't spoken with in years (except in random emails). But I'm still not sure what else it's good for. Any hints?

Thursday, March 12, 2009

Midterm Grades

I've received one mid-term grade and will get the second next Tuesday. I have, however, changed my mind about posting them (and will be taking down the poll). If you are interested in the grade(s) either email me or comment here and I'll email them to you. Otherwise, know that I'm doing fine.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

School Update

It's hard to believe that Midterms have just passed (not that I had them in my classes, but it does mean that we're halfway done with the term). Just wanted to let you know how things are going. I'm still finding myself working to remember terms and definitions, but it's a little easier now. At least the math and proceedures are not too hard to pick up... yet. So far, the lowest I've gotten is a 94 and that was on a homework assignment that was due the first day I had class (I started during the second week of the term). Since these are lower level classes I'm thinking of taking three next term and then dropping back to two per term as the classes get harder. We'll have to see how things work out. My teacher is planning on giving out midterm grades soon (so people can know how they stand in the class so far) and I thought about posting them here, but I don't want to seem like I'm bragging if they are good. So I put the question to you. Vote on my poll.

Pay It Forward

My nephew's wife posted this and I wanted to participate!

The first five people to respond to this post will get something made by me!

My choice.

For You.

This offer does have some restrictions and limitations:

1. I make no guarantees that you will like what I make! (Though I may ask some questions during the process.)

2. What I create will be just for you.

3. It'll be done this year (might take a little while).

4. You have no clue what it's going to be. It may be a story. It may be poetry or an article. It may be something sewn or crocheted. I may bake you something and mail it to you. Who knows? Not you, that's for sure!

5. I reserve the right to do something extremely strange.

The catch? Oh, the catch is that you must post this on your blog and offer the same to the first 5 people who do the same.

The first five people to do so and leave a comment telling me they did win a homemade gift from me!

Oh, and be sure to post a picture of what you win when you get it!

Again, I'm doing this because I want to and because who doesn't like gifts made from love!

Friday, February 27, 2009

What do you think? - Penguin Cake

I decided that I would take a picture of my efforts before I even started. Then I could post it here and either say "Look what I did! :)" or "Don't try this at home :P"



I grew up watching and helping my mother decorate cakes. When an opportunity presented itself to get an inexpensive cake decorating kit, I took it. It was a Betty Crocker As Seen On TV thing that has turned out to be not too bad.... as long as you aren't planning on using more than one color. It took me a while to get the hang of it since I was used to my mother's more professional stuff, but I managed.



When my husband told me that one of his co-workers was leaving I thought it would be fun to make a cake for her and since she likes penguins I wanted to try and make a penguin shaped cake. After some thought I decided I wouldn't be up to this task yet so I just found a graphic online and worked to trace it onto a simple 9x13 frosted cake. This was harder than I thought. I ended up cutting out the total outline and using my Pampered Chef orange peeler to trace it on. I then added details free hand with the peeler and, later, frosting. We didn't know what her favorite color was (found out it was purple in time to do the hat and lettering) so I thought it would be cute to make it blue. Let me know what you think. And be honest :)



Thursday, February 5, 2009

Free gift for your female Valentine!

This was actually posted on Laura's (my nephew's wife) blog, and I thought it was a good enough deal to pass along to anyone who is looking for a nice gift for their wife/girlfriend/mother. In these times of economic struggle, it's interesting to try and figure out the motivation behind the company to offer these Amethyst earrings for just the cost of shipping and handling. I'm interested myself, but as I don't wear earrings much, I cannot see spending even that much right now. Here is the link. Pass it along!

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Family Business

If you've been following the blog comments on this new endeavor of mine, you may remember that my father suggested I go into accounting because he thought I might be good at it. After all he's a retired CPA. I joked with him saying that I doubted accounting is genetic. Relating this story to my sister, Karma, (currently a CPA) revealed that my sister, Sheri, had also considered going into accounting, but didn't due to various reasons. Okay. So there is an interesting trend, but it couldn't possibly mean much. At least, that's what I thought before we had dinner at my dad's house and I brought the topic up. Here I discovered that another of my sisters, Sandy, had also considered accounting. While Dad had tried to talk Karma out of it and failed, he had succeeded in talking Sandy out of it which is why she is a physical therapist instead. So that's 4 out of 5 girls and 4 out of 6 kids in one family that have a confirmed interest in accounting. Maybe there's something to this "family business" concept that's lasted throughout the years.

Friday, January 23, 2009

My University Daruma


Here it is for you to see. I'll also be printing it out for personal display.


Thank you TSOTE for the image link :)

Thursday, January 22, 2009

One down...

... Thirteen to go!

Weeks that is. I'm not sure why I was so nervous. The classes themselves, while not easy, don't seem like they will be overly difficult either. Then again I've only attended one week so we'll have to see. I've decided that I cannot afford to purchase a daruma doll so I'll be downloading a picture and posting it here sometime soon. (If you're confused read alittle more about it here.)

I spoke with an Academic Advisor today and we figured out that if I stick with my two classes a term schedule and go every term between now and graduation I should be done after the Fall term of 2011. Of course, I can always accelerate that, but at least I have a finish line up now :).

Well. I'm off, but I thought I'd give you all an update (not that there's much to say).

Monday, January 19, 2009

First Day!

I am so nervous. Yesterday, in church, I was asked to give a talk in Sacrament meeting. A few minutes before I was supposed to speak I started getting really fluttery in my stomach. It actually made me think of the scene in The Cutting Edge when Doug says he's nervous, but he should be fine about 10 minutes after getting onto the ice and Kate stares at him saying the program was only 2 minutes long. I didn't actually throw up though. Yeah.... It's a feeling I haven't had since being on stage in high school. Well.... one day later and it's fluttering again. Class doesn't start for another 10 1/2 hours! I have to wonder if I'm making this out to be more than it will be. Of course, the class isn't the only thing I'm nervous about. My dad, who will normally be watching the kids, is out of town until tomorrow afternoon so I've asked a friend to watch the kids. I'm not worried about Gabriel, but Valerie has a tendency to take it personally when I disappear and leave her with people she sort of knows. And it's going to be for 3 1/2 to 4 hours! I just hope she doesn't freak out too bad. She's been doing much better in Nursery on Sundays. And the friend who is watching them has a son in her Nursery class so maybe she'll think it's like Nursery.... One can hope.

Friday, January 16, 2009

The Adventure Begins

After the comments and help you all gave me, as well as talking to people in the field, I finally came to the decision to work on an Accounting degree. I'm going to start out at CNM since I attended it's previous incarnation (TVI) several years ago and my credits are still good. They only offer an AAS Degree, but it's transferable should I want to continue on to get a BS. I'm admitted, and registered. The classes actually started this past Monday (12th), but registration was available until the 20th and the next semester wouldn't start until May so I jumped on it. I decided to heed my friend's warning and take two classes. One of them is on-campus and the other one is via distance learning. The advantage is that the distance learning is a "blended" course in which most of it is online, but there is an on-campus session that goes along with it. Now I just need to pay for the classes and figure out what books I need. It's so weird being back in school. I used to know this stuff backwards when I was just out of high school and now I have no clue. Wish me luck :P

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Education is a Good Thing.... Right?

Then why is it so hard to figure out the right school!

Okay, let me back up and start at the beginning. I've received an offer that I simply will not refuse. My father has offered to pay for schooling in any educational path I want (provided it can help me find some way to suppliment our income and possibly even take top spot should Dan's health require it of me). Knowing my time and resources in regards to child care, something that I can study at home and eventually turn into a career from home is best. A couple of ideas include medical billing and transcription work, accounting/bookkeeping, and computer or web related fields. Yes, I know there are others, but the reason I'm looking at these have to do with my interests and abilities (I'd love to learn culinary arts and possibly go into catering, but I'm not so good in the kitchen right now and it's definately not something I could study at home on my own :P).

So where do I start? Do I start by picking a career field and then a school? or do I pick a school first? Obviously not all schools have all career fields available which would suggest that career field would be the first choice, but just browsing through some of the education assistance sites (the ones that list all the different online and local schools (University of Pheonix, American Intercontinental University, etc)), it appears that they all offer similar study programs. Then there are the truly local schools CNM (Central New Mexico Community College) offers many courses via "distance learning" but the highest degree available is associate. This isn't a really bad thing and UNM (University of New Mexico) will transfer some degrees into their bachelor programs. I just don't know if I want to go for certificates, associate's, or bachelor's degrees. There are so many choices that I think my brain is going to explode!

So this is what I need to do (and any advice/help would be wonderful) in no particular order.

1. Decide on a career path.
- Computers
- Business
- Health services
2. Determine a course of study.
- Computers: Web design, networking, data entry
- Business: Accounting, bookkeeping, management
- Health services: Medical billing, coding, transcriptioning, assistance, nursing
3. Determine level of education.
- Certificate
- Associate Degree
- Bachelor Degree
4. Decide on a school.
- Accredidation
- Career placement help
- Distance learning available
- Tuition (taken care of, but I want to minimize costs to my father where possible)
- Length of program

Is that everything? I don't know! HELP!